Thinking About Becoming a Surrogate? Read This First.

When I first considered becoming a surrogate, I was excited — and terrified.
Not because I doubted why I wanted to do it…
But because I didn’t know how to even begin.

The first question wasn’t “Can I do this?”
It was:

“How do I choose who I’ll help?”

Do you pick a couple close by or far away?
Same-sex or heterosexual?
First-time parents or someone hoping for one more miracle?

No one tells you that surrogacy isn’t just a medical journey —
it’s an emotional matchmaking process.

My husband and I ended up choosing an international same-sex couple from Ireland. Why?

Not because they had the “best” profile.

Because something in my gut whispered — it’s them.

If you’re someone who’s thinking about becoming a surrogate — or secretly wishing you were brave enough to consider it — I want you to know this:

• You don’t have to have all the answers.

• You will find the right family.

• And you will just know when it feels right.

Surrogacy is not about perfection — it’s about connection, courage, and heart.

When a close friend told me she was becoming a surrogate, something in me lit up. I’d always loved being pregnant — the peace, the strength, the miracle of it all — and I knew deep down, this was something I was meant to do.

Now, after four surrogacy journeys, I can say it’s one of the most meaningful things I’ve ever done. Watching parents hold their baby for the first time — a baby they once thought they might never have — it’s magic.

Surrogacy isn’t about “giving up” a baby.
It’s about giving the ultimate gift — the chance to become a parent.

If you’ve ever felt that tug to do something life-changing… maybe this is your sign.
Women supporting women. Families growing. Love multiplying.